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Anonymous asked: Hi, there. I need a little bit of advice. I just went on a date with a beautiful girl, and she's really great. My problem is, I'm an adult, and that was my first date ever. She's great and all, but I don't know if I'm dating her because I genuinely want to be with her, or that I like the idea of a relationship. It's all kind of scary now that we've made it official. I just don't want to hurt her in the end because I rushed into something. It all feels weird to me. Thanks for your help!

I would say to just take it slow with this girl and see where it goes. I personally have a 2 week rule where I won’t make any big steps or become exclusive with someone for at least 2 weeks after having feelings for them because that’s how long it takes for me to realize if I just like them because I want companionship or if I really like them. so just see where it goes:)

Anonymous asked: i need some advice :-( so i have this guy friend and we started talking and we both liked each other and we kissed at a party; then we kinda got really busy and stopped talking; then i went to a party last week and i ended up hooking up with my best friend and nw i think i like him; but the 1st guy still likes me. i dont know what to do cause they were both my friends and i dont know who i like D:

it’s tricky with close friends…. id say don’t make any decisions until you’re sure how you feel, and make sure you don’t make either of them think you’re exclusive. I would also say, don’t date your best friend unless you’re sure you have strong feelings and a romantic relationship between you would last because dating and breaking up could jeopardize the friendship. there’s of course a chance you’ll stay good friends, one of my best friends is also my ex. but it’s a risk you really have to think about. so just take some time to feel it out and see who you really want to be with and who makes you the best version of yourself. don’t rush into anything you aren’t sure of and stay honest:) good luck!

Anonymous asked: (pt4) hate him so much now but the thing is i keep checking his blog and stuff and im happy when hes having a hard time and stuff and he asked one of my good friends to hc (different schools) and idk if its bothering me or im just hate obsessed?? i just dont know why i keep checking up on him because i definitely dont like him. im just confused and angry when i see him on social networks and stuff. sorry for the really long rant. do you know how i can just get him out of my head?? im going crazy

first off i want to say that i am sorry that you guys broke up, but congrats on doing ld for 5 months. This guy seems like a jerk…if someone breaks up with you over any type of communication other than in person or in ldr video or voice chat, its just not cool. I know that it sucks right now having to deal with all this, but part of moving on is regret, and to be honest, checking up on them and seeing what they are doing and i know it hurts like hell, but sometime in the future, things will get better. 

-Becca 

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