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Anonymous asked: (pt4) hate him so much now but the thing is i keep checking his blog and stuff and im happy when hes having a hard time and stuff and he asked one of my good friends to hc (different schools) and idk if its bothering me or im just hate obsessed?? i just dont know why i keep checking up on him because i definitely dont like him. im just confused and angry when i see him on social networks and stuff. sorry for the really long rant. do you know how i can just get him out of my head?? im going crazy

first off i want to say that i am sorry that you guys broke up, but congrats on doing ld for 5 months. This guy seems like a jerk…if someone breaks up with you over any type of communication other than in person or in ldr video or voice chat, its just not cool. I know that it sucks right now having to deal with all this, but part of moving on is regret, and to be honest, checking up on them and seeing what they are doing and i know it hurts like hell, but sometime in the future, things will get better.¬†

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Anonymous asked: over now, but I wonder if he contributed to those feelings. Did he rape me and I just haven’t realized it until now? Is it still rape after he apologized? I don’t know if I should tell anyone.

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Well, if it’s rape if you say no. so if he made you do it against your will or threatened you, that’s rape. however, if you consented, that is not rape, that’s just being pressured into making a decision. If you agreed then it wasn’t rape, it was just a peer pressure thing. Either way I’m sorry that you did something you weren’t comfortable with. that may have contributed to your asexual phase. I personally believe all experiences shape you and that was a pretty huge experience so that definitely has had and will have an effect on you.
if it was rape, him apologizing does not undo it. No matter what, it doesn’t undo it. if you break someone’s trust, saying sorry doesn’t fix it. if you cheat on someone, saying sorry doesn’t fix it. so if you were raped, him saying sorry doesn’t fix it or change what happened. if you were raped, you should probably tell someone. whether you want to press charges or not is totally up to you. but whatever decision you make, you will need help to deal with the emotions and the effects it has had on you. otherwise it’ll always haunt you and it could tear you apart. so talk to someone about it. I’m sorry for what you’re going through :(

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